Showing posts with label looking for girls. Show all posts
Showing posts with label looking for girls. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Why are foreigners searching for Russian brides?

For many years Russian bride has been a dream for each western man. So, please, continue reading and learn why men all over the world come to Russia looking for their beloved ones.

The reason for it is quite simple: in Russia they can find a better partner than at home! When they say Russian bride they always mean «the best woman ever»! But is it so? Just check the websites of American expatriates living in Russia and you will confirm my words: Russian brides are looking for a husband abroad just because they want to meet a suitable partner that they failed to meet at home. They are not looking to immigrate. They just want to find their love! The general reason for this lies in Russian demographics. You know that men to women ratios differ dramatically between the countries. The latest figures from The Economist show that in United Arab Emirates there are about 186 males for 100 females. It’s clear the competition for eligible females should be stiff there. If you are a single male, the Emirates will be the last place in the world to look for an available woman - unless you live there, of course. And what is the best place for a single male to look for the beloved one? The lowest men to women ratios are in Eastern Europe! Countries like Russia and Ukraine are on the top of the list, with only 88 males to 100 females. The latest Russian census provided astounding figures of 10 million more women than men. There the situation is exactly the opposite way around: eligible bachelors are more precious than gold. So if you are a single man searching for you love – Russia is the best choise for you! More over Russian bride is unique by her nature!!! By their personality, Russian ladies are tender and at the same time they are diligent, strong and hard-working, especially, when they do something for their family and people they love. In actuality, the Slavonic women are not spoiled with feminism. They are mostly family focused and traditionally, they obtain the knowledge of keeping happy family nest from their grandmothers. Those clever old-ladies teach their grand-daughters how to be kind, loving and caring with their future husband and children. The grannies pass on to their lovely descendants the secrets of cooking, sewing, knitting and house-holding. At the early childhood they start reading Russian national fairy-tales to their granddaughters. And those old and kind folktales mostly teach the morals and show the attitude of a Russian beauty to her man. So if you want to find a woman that will love you forever – just visit Russia. And I'm sure you'll find there your destined.

Author: Oxana Boichenko

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Russian And Ukrainian Ladies - The Real Deal

Russian Brides? As with so much in life this well known phrase has circumnavigated the planet. Unfortunately for many people it is associated negatively, which I guess is hardly surprising. The reality behind this phrase is in fact something quite different and this article will I hope go some way to explaining how these ladies view both life and the World and what in fact they hope and strive for.

The beauty of ladies from the FSU has during recent years become well known to men worldwide. I see on a daily basis the flow of interest of men from all over the planet, during the course of work at my Ukraine based Dating Agency. From where I sit it seems that maybe some guys have not really thought through the realities of trying to win the heart of a woman across such huge distances.

This is not the girl next door, or even from the same town, or country. Really we receive letters for our ladies, sometimes two lines," I saw your photo, I love you, will you marry me". Do not get me wrong, such a letter is great, romantic and would lift the heart and spirits of any girl within the guys city, or even country. The truth is that when one of our ladies receives such a letter, she is not to impressed. As I have mentioned these are smart, pragmatic and practical ladies and receiving such a letter from maybe 12,000.00 klm's away, or even more can be a little frustrating.

So clearly a Russian wife, or bride is not an easy option, but is it worth the extra effort, this is the question? Now in my opinion the answer is without a doubt yes. Ok I could be biased, right? I run a Russian Dating agency so clearly I am not impartial. Well in truth I am very partial and have much admiration for these ladies.

Why do I believe that these ladies are worth pursuing, despite the extra effort involved? Well the list of attractions and attributes that many of these ladies share is quite substantial, so here goes.......

These ladies are in general very smart and very intelligent as well as being either beautiful, or very beautiful. They know what they want and they are going to achieve it, to the best of their abilities. Registering to an International Dating agency is only part of their life plan.

Most probably they will have either a university degree, or will be working towards achieving one. Are they desperate to leave their country for a better life abroad? In general no, but the important thing to understand is that they are open to the possibility. If they meet a nice guy from abroad great, but equally if they meet a nice guy from within their own country, this can be great also.

So together with the beauty they share, how can they be described? These are in general proud and strong ladies. They know they are beautiful and they know they are very attractive. Equally they have few inhibitions in dressing to accentuate their beauty and attractiveness. For the foriegn man it is quite a pleasant surprise to see how much care they take over their appearance. Beauty saloons are a thriving business here and many ladies will visit one regularly to ensure that she looks her best.

Equally they take enormous care and pride in their appearance and dress both very well and in such a way as to highlight their femininity. The take these ladies have in the gender stakes is interestingly very different to those held by ladies in the West. These ladies understand the strength of their femininity and of being a woman. It is interesting that this attitude, or evolution seems to have given them greater respect, or empowerment within their countries, than Women have achieved in the West.

Now in addition to all of the above these ladies can make ideal wives, why? It is related to the moral and family values that they have been surrounded with and immersed within. The family is very important in the FSU and these ladies will generally put the family first and above all else. Due to this history and upbringing Slavic women are considered by many to make very good wives and mothers.

Is it worth the extra effort of trying for a Russian/Ukrainian partner, soulmate, or wife? We believe that yes it is and have written many articles explaining our reasoning. A Russian partner is not the easy option due to the realities of distance and the cultural and linguistic differences, but the prize is worth the effort. You can study the profiles of our beautiful ladies a see these qualities at: http://girls-from-russia.com/

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Terrence_Aubrey

Terrence Aubrey - EzineArticles Expert Author

Monday, June 2, 2008

A Russian family

This usually happens in businesses where labour is cheap and abundant. For example, in the restaurant and clothing boutique businesses. There are literally thousands of young women waiting to get jobs in these companies. It is an unfortunate but common occurance.


Moscow and St. Petersburg are notorious for this. Certain bogus tourist companies exist wh


Household electric appliances have been introduced to Russian homes only recently and only in wealthy families. Today an average Russian family possesses such electric appliances as an electric kettle, a mixer, a tape-recorder and a TV-set. Lately a video cassette recorder has been added to the lot.


An automatic washing machine, a dish-washer, a microwave oven and an automatic kitchen set the complement of a very high income family. Therefore Russian woman has to do much more work by hand or using semi-automatic household appliances and to waste much more time on it than a foreigner. Pre-prepared food is an extreme novelty. The first time I went shopping with my husband to a chain called Woolworths, I was amazed at the level of convenience afforded. All food is pre-cooked the same day and delivered fresh. The concept of my husband deciding to get up at 9am buy food over the internet and have it delivered in 45 minutes will be new to any RW.


A Russian family very often doesn't own a car, let alone a car for each member of the family, many do not own an apartment, let alone a cottage. A personal computer is not a wide spread phenomenon as well.


Many Russian women cannot afford attending a gym, a beauty salon (CHECK), hairdresser's and expensive high-quality cosmetics. Therefore she has to be her own style specialist, hairdresser and sport coach. This explains why RW are so easily able to keep themselves well groomed – they have had much practice.


Low level of income prevents Russian women from buying expensive clothes of well-known trademarks. Winter clothes present a special problem: Russian winters are very severe and a fur coat is not a luxury but a necessity. And though her budget is very tight, a Russian woman will emerge with flying colours. It is worth mentioning that foreigners are continually surprised to see so many women in expensive fur coats on the streets of Russian cities.


Russian do not marry Western men for their money or a better life, they marry a western man for a normal life. This something any man must remember when he goes to Russia. Yes there are many women looking at money, but you do not want to marry them. A women must see the side of you she will need when she experiences difficulty in life, the side she will need when she will obviously experience failure.

Women of this type can get scared of the prospect of relations with you...

Against: Women of this type can get scared of the prospect of relations with you, can refuse to believe in your good feelings and intentions because of I-don't-deserve-him attitude, so that you will be forced into proving the contrary time and again with a risk of getting bored to death; besides. One agency described such women in the following way…”you risk marrying a woman who doesn't love you for very often women of this type choose a man obviously inferior to them to make their own beauty and intelligence more prominent, emphasized by such a 'background', and you will agree that being a 'background' is not a most pleasant thing. Therefore, make sure that her feelings are genuine before you marry a woman of this type.”…I think this is so untrue. These women are merely looking for someone to believe in them. Someone to tell them they are special and can really accomplish anything they try to do. If you show someone that you care, they will return your love in more ways then you could possibly hope. And I speak for myself here. I have always had men trying to be with me from a very young age. But due to personal difficulties I always thought I could never achieve anything and I would always be alone. The reason I married my husband is because he proved he loved me not for just for my physical beauty. For a very long time I thought there was no such thing as true love, it was a fabrication of Hollywood. I thought I would never find a young man who shared my interests and goals in life. But I found such a person. When I help my clients this is what I always remember. True love is possible with the right guidance. I love him because he showed me what was and is possible.


“Supermodels”: Beautiful but rather limited Russian women who are usually in love with their own person. As a rule, they prefer to work as models, secretaries and aspire to becoming actresses.


For: Is there a man who, even for a moment, hasn't dreamt of marrying Claudia Schiffer of Marilyn Monroe? It is great to take such a woman out for she provokes envy almost in everybody.


Against: Such beauty can be compared to a box of chocolates: they are sweet. But it is in human nature that a person can't survive on chocolates only, in the long run he will long for something more nutritious. It's the same with women: after all, some day you'll want to talk with her, to share you joys and sorrows, to get her advice and help. But do not expect this from a “Supermodel”. Women of this type can be placed into the category of women to beware of (see the unit "Russian Women to Beware Of").


“The Girl Next Door”: Russian women of good appearance and of very high level of intelligence. They are usually engaged in average work.


a) If she is self-confident she will find a partner without much difficulty. They are aware of their winning and losing points and learn, in the long run, to emphasize the first and to smooth over the latter.


For: Such woman will never bore you, since she'll always find a topic for a conversation. You will never know the throe of jealousy: there are few men who are indifferent to looks craving for exclusively intellectual intercourse; you'll always remain a superman for her.


Against: Not all of your acquaintances will appreciate your choice: people will judge your choice by its exterior.


b) She may be of average appearance and lacking in beauty


For: Such woman will never bore you, since she'll always find a topic for a conversation. You will never know the throe of jealousy: there are few men who are indifferent to looks craving for exclusively intellectual intercourse; you'll always remain a superman for her.


Against: It will take you much time and effort to raise her confidence, to make her feel self-assured; her poor image of herself may affect your personal life: she may shun the society of your friends and making visits: she may give up pretty clothes not to draw attention to herself.


“The extra”: These women of this type can be called neither beautiful nor ugly; they will not set the Mississippi on fire but are far from being stupid, are sure of themselves; in most cases they belong to the middle class; they do not like to take the responsibility in business on themselves.


For: These women represent the stereotypical RW; they are domestic, comforting, not intricate at all. You'll always feel at ease with them, they value their husband and know how to please him, they make the best mothers and housewives.


Against: If you favor surprises, mysteries, surges of emotion, tension of passions, diversity - this is not your type.


“The wannabe”: Women with poor physical appearance and low level of intelligence, whom you are unlikely to get interested in. Such women


Apart from this classification, the Russian woman can perform several social parts: the Mother, the Mistress, the Wife.

Sunday, June 1, 2008

The majority of clients we have are looking for girls with good

The majority of clients we have are looking for girls with good, wholesome values, not materialistic, looking for love and happiness, not tainted in her thinking, brought up with strict family values where the unit of the family is fundamental to happiness. As far as we know we are the only agency to offer such a type of women. These women tend to be harder to find since they are usually located far away from the offices of the agencies. They tend to have old fashioned values and see the wife as the custodian of the house.

For: These RW tend to have very strong values and if she marries a man, then it is usually for the right reasons. Because family has tended to be such an important part of her life, she will spend much time making sure her own family works. She will usually support her husband in whatever way she can. She will work very hard to make the relationship a success. She will initially try to please you in the only way she can by being a good wife. This can be particularly frustrating if she can find no Russian recipes to cook. Refer to our section on Post Marriage support for advice.

Against: The first time such a women arrives in the big city can a period of painful adjustment. This can lead to depression, need for her family and a desire to meet other Russian people. She will also find it very difficult to reconcile the idea of a living in a big city where most people can be cruel. If the husband is supportive this period of adjustment can be quickly overcome.

Social Butterfly: Russian women with bright prepossessing appearance, considerable mental abilities, with an adequate self-evaluation and a rather high and stable social status. Lately, the women of this type can be encountered in greater numbers in Russia, but they are mostly city-dwellers. Most women of this type live in industrial and commercial centers.

For: You won't be ashamed of your choice: you will have a right to be proud when taking such a woman out; she will make a good companion for your mind, as well as for your heart, as the Russian saying goes. She is able not only of talking, but of listening as well as giving sound advice. Your self-esteem will be satisfied: if such a woman has chosen you, then you will be a really be the recipient of much envy.

Against: Leadership is in man's nature. That's why before you bind yourself to such a woman, think it over whether it will be easy for you to comply with her leadership; won't her overwhelming positiveness cast a shade upon your own personality and assimilate it: won't you feel a free supplement to her merits? Also decades of propaganda has led to us believing RW are submissiveв. Social Butterflys are not submissive!

“Angels: Beautiful and intelligent Russian women of a high social status, but for a number of reasons (upbringing, failures in private life) their self-esteem is short of adequacy.

For: It is much easier to make the relationship take shape with such a woman; she will think of you as of a winning ticket which the wind of fortune has thrown into her humble path; you'll get hold of a 1st type woman but for awareness of her own attractiveness. It will make you feel a lucky gold-digger who has come upon a nugget.